Dear Charlotte,
so first of all thanks a lot for the answer
Lets c:
well I started EASY since he was born. I guess when he has a jump of developing I have to reorganise it for his age. Since he was born had sleeping problem b ut just during the they, was and is very difficult for him to fall asleep.
A week ago he still woke up once or twice a night, fed him (breast feeding) and fell asleep again. If I didnt get there by the time he woke up he started to cry very hard
. But sometimes he could sleep all night. So I said for myself, I have to sleep too, so I tried the one which was written in the book that u have to wake him up just a bit an hour earlier then he usually wakes up during the night, and then let him sleep. Well, we did it twice, I dont know if this is why, but since ever he sleeps, wakes up once at about 5:30 a.m. then no more then 3 minutes and sleeps again. So I guess this is managed. But as I wrote the biggest problem is the day time napping. What I c he needs 2 bigger and a smaller sleep (one at 9.30 a.m for about 1 and a half hours, anotherone from about 1. If we go for a walk, he can sleep 2 hours, but @ home only about an hour-more or less, If he wakes up at 4-half 4, then till bed time no more sleep. If he only slept only half an hour then he needs a nep before going to bed too.
Here u r our EASY nowadays:
wake-up @ 6.30-7am
E - breastfeed immediatly when he wakes up, otherwise...
he could kill for eating
So breakfast in my bed, meanwhile he has his breakfast Im still half asleep. Then when he finishes it, usually starts to stear at me, touching and calling me "mom wake up" he is very cute.,
A - changing nappy, dress up, play on mat (I try to dress up and make the bed, but it depends on his mood. Sometimes he just hangs on me like a stcker, cant eve have breakfast, dress up and staff like that. I know its not normal. ()or what does it mean: errands etc)
S - 9.30 - 11am nap (any wakings or resettlings?) sometimes from 10 to 11.30 depends how I can help him to fall asleep.
E - solid and breastfeeding @ 11-12am,(depends on what time he wakes up. Normaly he eats every 4 hours during the day. Going for a walk, just started the buggy as he hated it too. Now is a lot better, but still crys before sleeping.
S - 1.30 - 3pm-depends on his day, mood, etc.
E - BF, and a bit of solid,/ we've just started giving him solids 3 times a day)
A - out for a walk
S - 4.30 catnap
E - BF @5ish, also solids @6ish so the bedtime breast feeding is rather just to help him to calm down before I put him to bed, as his tommy is full anyway.
A- Bedtime routine of bath (before bathing if he lets me do it I give him baby massage or just a little play-hide and seek, etc in his bed-then bathing. After bathing he normaly starts to cry, knows that that is the end of day, and gets I guess impatient till starting to feed him.
S - 8ish pm Nowadays sometimes he doesnt fall asleep after breastfeeding immediatly, starts to ply till abot 9.30 p.m.
The easier is the evening sleep, by now sometimes he can do it by himself. If Im good enough I stop feeding him by the time he finished eating and only sucking my breast and make him asleep with put down/pick up, and it works quite quickly.
Try put down/pick up during the day too which sometimes works but mostly noooooooooo
especially when he is extra tired like yesterday. We moved the whole weekend, so it was very busy, many people, big mess, etc. Tried to put him to bed at 5, screamed till 6.15 p.m. Got very tired so gave it up, he stopped crying and started to cry. He seemed to be sleeping meanwhile screaming
then in the evening it took no more then 5 minutes for him to fall asleep.
U asked me what he does, well he is a bit in a hurry I guess
because he already crawls and stends up and looks at his area very carefuly. He is like a 10-11 month old baby with no teeth yet-but I know they can come out any time. He takes homeopathia pill and has a nekless too made from ivy to help him.
By now Im better, not getting nerveous that much when he starts to sream.
Hope I was not confusing with writting everything pell-mell and u can suggest me something.
Also its good to hear Im not the only one with this problem. I just want to help him to let him like sleeping and not being affraid of it. Also want spare time for myself to have a rest.
Awaiting for your answer.
Viki xxx