I don't know whether to post this here, on the allergy board or on CRC, so mods feel free to move it...
dd2 was diagnosed with reflux at 3.5 weeks and with MPI (and likely MSPI) at 5 weeks. We've been dairy free since then, and on meds for reflux. It's better, but not totally controlled. Our pediatrician has been great, but feels like she's exceeded her level of expertise with dd2, so sent us to a pediatric GI specialist who we saw today.
Based upon her medical history and lack of responsiveness to meds, and the fact that dh and I both have penicillin allergies (he's found a link between parental drug allergies and bub protein allergies) and I'm allergic to sulfa drugs as well....he's convinced the reflux is due to the milk protein allergy. And even though I'm dairy free, she is still getting milk protein - just in the form of human milk protein because she's ebf. All mammals have a milk protein in their milk, most bubs that have a milk protein issue have the biggest problem with cow's milk (some do fine on goat's milk, and I suppose in theory you could try sheep's milk or yak milk if you've got it!). Human milk is (obviously) intended for human consumption, so most bubs do fine with the human milk protein. In dd2's case, she is even having trouble with that. So GI dr says "if you want her to be asymptomatic, you have to stop bfing and switch to an amino acid based formula that doesn't contain that protein". I cried
He then went on to say that I'm not going to cause her long term damage or harm by continuing to bf (since the dairy/soy elimination has taken care of the blood in her stool), and she will likely outgrow the allergy by the time she's 12 to 15 months.
So now I have to decide what to do - do I keep bfing and just manage her symptoms as best we can (which is where we are now)? Do I quit entirely and go to formula? Do I do a combo of both? I LOVE LOVE LOVE bfing and I know that there are soooooooooooo many benefits to both me and dd2 to continue (beyond what it does to her GI-wise). But at the same time, I hate her being in pain from it to. Part of me cries because I feel like I'm poisoning my child (which I know isn't true, but feels like it) by bfing, but then part of me looks at her when she is all snuggled at the breast and I cannot imagine giving that up.
I bf and held her while she slept for 1.5 hrs this afternoon while dd1 was napping and just cried