I don't handle disturbed sleep at all well and definitely couldn't cope with that!
It's such a shame that people have no idea that there are gentle methods of sleep training out there and seem to think it's kind of "all or nothing" iyswim. It's a shame as well if some people feel they have to give up BFing to get sleep. You can have a baby that sleeps independently yet still have all the benefits of BFing!
Just wondering, how do the mums that report that kind of disturbed sleep sound? Are they upset by it, struggling with it, or seem happy enough with it?
Have you shared how you BF? ie whilst still getting sleep! I wonder if they would even think such a way is possible...? POssibly there's others like you though who don't post as it seems against the norm of the group?