I wondered how you were doing Anna! Yep, I never offer either
! I think because it is so much *not* about the milk, that I wonder if we need to come up with something that fills their need for closeness instead? A cuddle doesn't do it for E, but I might try doing a dance or something
! The other thing is that I'm wondering if it might be better for me to just quite cold turkey - it feels really cruel
, but I just wonder if she would find it hard for a couple of days and then be alright. But, I have been telling myself that for 6 months and still not got round to doing it as I doubt myself.