Well... He's sick.. So all tweaking is now out. I did do the short AM CN and woke him at 40min he just seemed so tired from not feeling well I felt bad. But he was a happy kid when I woke him up. Put him down 2.5hrs later. He protested a lot but was obviously tired so I think he was just not understanding why i was putting him down as he'd already slept and it was off routine. But a little apop and he was out. Slept 1.5hrs to the minute, and woke on his own. Put him down 4.5hrs later (tried for 4 but he was having none of it
). So BT was 6:30 (after a 5:45am wake up), he woke at 3:50 but I think this was cough/cold related. Rocked him back to sleep, asleep by 4:15. Woke at 5:20, rocked to sleep for 25min but he was up after that. Still tired but just wouldn't go back to sleep, so another wake up of 5:45. It wouldn't be so bad if I haven't been up since 3:50 oy.
Songbird, it's totally up to you what you think is going to work best. My LO is 11 months and I just tried the capped AM nap for the first time yesterday as he was just taking such glorious 2hr+ naps and we were doing EBT, but OT started to creep in and he stopped tacking on his nights and so we tried it yesterday. I'll let you know how it goes after he's over his cold.
As for the Full A after the first nap it's up to you. If you are going to Cap the nap under a full sleep cycle (45min) than you can do a shorter A as it's going to be an UT nap anyway. It also depends how much A he needs before BT. My LO when he was taking his CN liked a long AM a of 4.5hrs, then a Long AM nap a shorter A of 3.5hrs capped nap of 30min and then a shorter A about 2-2.5hrs to BT. Some LO's do much better with a long PM nap and Long A before BT so the capped AM nap is good. What we did yesterday (my lo is older than yours) was
W: 5:45
S: 9:15-9:45 so it was an UT nap as it was only an A of 3.5hrs in the AM but that's ok
S: 12:25-2:05 woke on his own
S: 6:30
I used to do this when he was taking a CN.
W: 6:30
S: 11-1
S:4:30-5
S:7:30
For your LO since he's younger you can still cap the nap but leave it a bit longer like an Hr or so if that's what works for you? Does this makes sense, sorry if it's jumbled.