Hi
Shuler_girl, thanks, I breast feed, mainly in cradle hold but might try some different, more upright positions, that's a good idea
viloet's mum granted it has been a good few weeks since I tried to swaddle him but he would fight and wriggle and cry until he was released - I always gave up after about 10mins max, I did try with one and both arms up as well, if you think it's worth it I could give it another go - do you know up to what age it's recommended to?
I always feed him when he wakes in the night and he usually takes a good feed, it's still every 3 hours day and night that he wants to. I have been trying to feed him 2 hourly for last couple of feeds, so far that's not extended his sleep but I'm actually not too worried about that, I'm happy to feed him a couple of times through the night at this point especially if he is doing a good feed and not just suckling for a couple of minutes for comfort. Last night I tried a dream feed about 1am - just shy of 3 hours after his previous feed and he actually did pretty well with that, it's the first time I've tried it, he stirred but didn't get fully alert, took a shortish but fairly determined feed and went back down. He woke again about 2 hours later looking for a proper feed, fed well but then despite having fed him in the dark, no speaking/eye contact etc he was wide awake and grizzling/not wanting put down and took a good hour and a half to settle back to sleep with shush/pat slow walking and then holding him while he finally went to sleep in his crib, then he was only down for less than an hour when he was awake again and we gave in and let him sleep in his bouncy chair beside our bed so we could get another couple of hours sleep!
I'm so glad I found this board - after I read the book Tracy made it sound so easy (no pun intended) and I think it is simple good advice which will help but it's not that easy!! Good to see other mums also have to work on things and adapt to suit their LO's. I think an outside perspective really helps sometimes because its too easy to get into a tangle without realising it!