Hi Catherine,
I took him back to 2 naps/day as one nap was just not enough for him. His daily naps take place in his pram - I put him in and take him for a walk and he falls asleep. I then put the pram in the garden and he carries on sleeping. I would love it for him to take his naps in his cot, but I have no idea how to do that - any tips?
I'm currently visiting family abroad, staying at my brother's. He seems very happy here as he has lots of room to play, a nice big garden, people around and a cousin his age.
He has his own room here. I expected the trip and change of surroundings to affect his sleeping but tbh I do not see much difference with how he behaves at home.
Here are the two last days:
19 AUG
- 6:30 - WU, cuddles in bed, then I take him downstairs to play in the lounge that has a big play area with loads of different toys scattered on the floor
- 8:00 - breakfast, play in lounge
- 9:30 - tried to put to sleep in pram but no luck, so played instead
- 11:00- falls asleep in pram during walk
- 12:00 - lunch, plays with mum in garden
- 14:40 - I walk him in pram hoping he will sleep, he is sleepy but won't settle, finally gets bottle of water and falls asleep at 15:30.
-16:35 - I wake him up and give him tea. I take him grocery shopping with me and he is very clingy and grumpy throughout the evening, basically I end up carrying him, as he won't go in the shopping trolley which he normally likes.
- 18:30 - dinner. Afterwards I give him a bath, then take him to his bedroom, take him on my lap and read him a story, and then give a bottle of milk. Although tired and sleepy throughout the afternoon, he is wide awake now and plays up when put to bed. He jumps up and down, shrieks, crawls around in cot. Laughs and tries playing peekaboo with me. It takes 90 mins for him to settle down and fall asleep. I stay in armchair next to cot throughout it, putting him down time after time. I tend not to talk to him much or engage with him much. He does a poop in the meantime so I change nappy next to cot.
- He wakes up crying sometime in the night, no idea what time, I try to comfort him in the cot,
he grabs my hand and holds it very tight to sleep. As soon as I try easing the hand out, he cries again.. This goes on a couple of times. I finally take him out of the cot and cradle to sleep in my arms, but he cries again as soon as put back into crib. I then give up and take him into bed with me.
*Every time this happens, when he holds my hand tightly, it basically ends that way, with me taking him in my bed as I cannot ease my hand out without waking him up.
When he sleeps with me, he gladly cuddles up, but after a short sleep he starts to stir and move about, get up, shout out, wriggle etc - I believe
he does it all in his sleep.
- 5:50 WU
20 AUG
- 5:50 - WU, cuddles in bed, plays in lounge
- 8:00 - breakfast, little play in lounge
- 8:50 - sleeps in buggy, wakes up shortly after half an hour but rocked back to sleep.
- 10:30 - WU, little play and walk in the pram, he also gets a snack
- 12:00- lunch, plays in garden with family
- around 13:00 gets very sleepy, put him in pram and try to rock him to sleep but he doesn't go to sleep.
I then take him for a walk in the pram, he falls asleep at 15:00, but minutes later a loud street noise wakes him up all scared. He wouldn't go back to sleep even when I wore him in a sling after that.
- 16:00 - tea.
Plays in lounge with toys with me, granny and little cousin.
Around 5 goes out to do a bit of walking with my help (he is just about to walk on his own) for about 30 mins, then plays a bit more while I make dinner.
- 18:00 - dinner and a bit of In The Night Garden.
- 18:20 - bath, story and milk.
He falls asleep on the bottle and only just about wakes up to be put in crib. Falls asleep immediately (around 7pm).
- 19:15 - wakes up crying. I go in to see him, he's not standing up, he is lying down in crib crying. I try soothing him to no avail. He gets up crying. I try putting him down several times but he gets very miserable. I end up picking him up in my arms and calming him down. He is sleepy but awake when I put him in crib. Falls asleep easily.
- 19:25 - cries again. I put him back in crib, this time he doesn't protest and falls asleep.
- wakes up around midnight, I had been so sound asleep I am now barely conscious and I take him to bed with me, changing a nappy that is very heavy. He doesn't settle for around 2 hours, ie wriggles and crawls and turns in his sleep.
WU @ 6:15
What do you think? I am so frustrated as the GW that I have been doing for weeks now seems to bring no results - he takes ages to fall asleep (on average 1h, but even up to 90 mins) and it doesn't help at all in eliminating the NWs nor does it help with putting him back to sleep when he wakes up
I'm a translator and used to work from home, I used to be able to work in the evenings when he was asleep, but now it's impossible. I also do not see how we could possibly have another baby in this situation
Please help.