Hello all! RUAN, my 20 months old, has been exclusively breast fed (solids started at close to 6 months). I had tried the bottle (with expressed bm) at 5 months, but he rejected it. I was keen to breast feed till 12 months, so I continued....but have not been able to wean him off since. My question is - how do i achieve the wean off at this stage?
At 1 year tried to move him to sippy cup for morning feed, he completely rejected it. Tried for 2 weeks at a stretch, it didn't work, since then have been trying on and off, without much success. Hence am also concerned that weaning him from breastfeeding will mean putting a stop tio his milk intake completely since I have not been able to move him to sippy cup or bottle.
He still wakes up 3-4 times a night, and settles down only after a breast feed. My next question is - are his night wakings linked to the fact that he is still on bm and how do I stop him from these multiple wakings?
A short description of his bedtime routine - he used to have a 30-45 set bedtime routine that included change of clothes, story-telling and some wind down play. I used to give him his night feed soon after the routine, and within 5-10 minutes of the feed, he used to sleep on his own (without patting, singing etc). We co-sleep. Now, he has no patience for the routine, refuses to go on the bed till he is drop-dead sleepy. And when he does get on the bed, takes a quick feed, and sleeps within 5-10 minutes of the feed (he does not sleep while feeding). He sleeps for around 10 hrs on average, with 3-4 wakings for feed.
A short description of his daytime routine - wake up around 7 am, take a breast feed. Has breakfast around 8 am....is often hungry within an hour of taking breakfast and takes some fruits (with difficulty). Takes his bath and then has playtime (at home or we have a few playdates during the week)...has his lunch at 12 pm, and sleeps around 1 (within 6 hrs of waking up in the morning). His mid-day nap lasts around 2 hrs (with 1-2 wakings, not for feed but needs to be patted back to sleep). He has a fruit snack after waking up, and then dinner around 7 after which he goes to bed around 9.
Hope I've been able to give an adequate background. I'm a great fan of the BW methodology and would be grateful for your help!