My LO is 3 months exactly. He HATES the swaddle. Bedtimes get to be a screaming session as soon as we swaddle him. However, tonight and other times I have tried to skip swaddling to see how he does and he just ends up waking up in 10 minutes by his arms flailing all over the place. Bedtime routine is good, and everything is calm until out comes the swaddle. As soon as we lay him on it (we use the Miracle Blanket), he starts screaming. We get him wrapped and he continues to scream for an hour and eventually tires himself out. I mean basically he is crying himself to sleep everynight. I know this is a stupid question by is there any other way we can control his arms without swaddling? When do they get more arm control? I really want to drop this swaddling, if only he could sleep without it...