Ok so I guess it would look something like this:
WU E 7
A
E solids 9
S 950
E (depending on when he wakes) 11:10
A
E solids 1
S 2
A
E 3
A
E solids 5
Bath
E 6
S 6:15
NWs have occurred at 9, 10, 10:30, 11, 12:30...(usually one of these times per night) - because I used to DF around 10, I usually feed at this WU point.
Then there's a WU around 1:45 let's say - and I can just whisper go back to sleep or rub his back and he usually falls back to sleep.
Then at 3:30 (today, and 4:30am yesterday) he got up - I tried to comfort but then it started to escalate into a cry so I tried to feed him. Since I'm trying to wean him off of this feed, I took him off after 7 minutes. He went down in the crib easily but would start whining/crying a few minutes later and then has been up for hours. Eventually not even 2 hours later I need to feed him again to calm him down, and then he usually goes back to sleep.
There was one night - the last night of our trip where he slept from 10:30-7 - the longest he had ever gone! Needless to say, I was up all night checking on him (well actually he started to get up around 1:30 or so, so I whispered go back to sleep and didn't hear from him the rest of the night). Then last week he went a 9 hr 40 min stretch between his feedings (he had slept around 8 hrs straight) and that was pretty cool too (he went from 7-3:30 about). So when these days occurred I tried to do exactly the same thing the next day, but to no avail!
The problem is though with writing out EAS - is that his WUs are never at the same time, neither are his naps. The durations of the naps are a gamble and so are his A times with getting him down to a decent nap. He also never falls asleep at the same time even if his BT routine is the same, at the same time. He just will go to sleep when he wants to. It's fine (although it gives me great anxiety as the clock ticks later and he is still awake), we leave him in the room and most of the time he will fall asleep eventually, but sometimes he will cry and we have to keep coming in the room. That's also confusing.
What do you mean feed twice during the A time? Can you give me an example?