The past few nights, DS has FOUGHT for about an hour to go to sleep at night. He is 6 months old, and takes great naps during the day (about 3.5-5 hours a day). He used to go to sleep at night just as easily. However, the past few nights when I try to put him down to sleep at night, he screams and kicks his legs. This is after a routine that he's followed since about his 2nd month: feed, bath, cuddle/book, a song/prayer, and bed. (Usually in bed by of before 7:30pm) PU/PD does NOT work. He kicks me and hits out at me, and Tracey said not to try and PU/PD a baby who is fighting. Instead, I stand next to his crib and talk quietly to him, but this usually doesn't calm him down. He buries his head in his mattress while he flails and rolls and screams. Sometimes, DS will let me put my hand on his back or he'll hold on to my finger, but usually, touching him when he's that upset just makes him more upset. DH and I have never left him to "cry it out" and he takes good naps in his crib during the day. (So, I don't think he has crib aversion.) Here are some things that are going on right now that might help figure out the problem:
He is learning so many things right now. (Sitting up, trying to pull up, etc.) So, this may be a milestone problem. Also, we had to wean him from his pacifier, because we were accidently using it as a prop. He can put it into his own mouth now, so we keep it available in his crib, and he grabs it when he wants it. DS usually sleeps with the lights off. (If there are lights on, he plays in his crib.) But, tonight, I turned on a small light, and he stopped crying for a little while.
So:
Are we putting DS to bed too early? (Catnap before last feed can run
long.)
Is DS going through separation anxiety? Is using a light in the room better because he can see me, DH, and his familiar surroundings, or did he calm down because the light surprised him?
Is he in pain from teething? (Bottom two just came in two weeks ago. Do top ones hurt the same way when they come in?)
Or, is this just a milestone time that he's going through?
Sorry to go on and on, but I really need some help here! PLEASE! I'll take ANY advice from anyone who has had these kind of problems.
Thank you!
Hugs, Charlotte