Realistically how long do you think it would take before I saw a change in her WU? I just want to know that point at which I stop...because we can only go so long cutting day sleep and her nights/WUs not changing. I can push through, but so far we haven't seen any progress, and I complete get it has only been 2 days...but I am obviously not going to keep doing this is we are not getting results at some point. She's an absolute bear this morning, I can't put her down without her being hysterical. The last hour of her 2nd A time is always like this, I am usually changing activities every 10mins just to keep her going. She's just not happy, she's a tired grumpy mess, and it feels like I'm not listening to my baby anymore, it feels like I am completely ignoring what she is telling me. And again, willing to do that if it means there is an endgame. I just don't feel like spending our days miserable because she's tired and I'm exhausted trying to keep her occupied (and also waking starting my day at 5:15am) while she's always on the verge of melting down.
So if there is a point where you think we would start to see a change I will keep going until then...3 days, 5 days? A week?
She is an independent sleeper, she does use a soother but I don't think it's a prop. She can resettle herself without it and can also replug herself, she also doesn't wake when it falls out.