Back again... wasn't planning on coming on here during our holiday but we're having such a hard time with sleep I'm getting desperate! He's still fighting every nap and is doing short naps which he won't resettle from and nights are getting worse. I just don't know what to do with him
He's waking earlier for feeds and we've had several nights of two feeds. Last night it was just one but it took an hour and a half to get him back down. I'm shattered. We haven't even gone anywhere with him cos the weather's been so hot we've mostly stayed in, though he has just cut his first tooth and probably therefore has another on the way.
Yesterday we just followed cues and he didn't yawn or anything til about 2hrs 10/15 A time, but then fought his nap til he'd been up for about 2hrs 30. He napped 35-40 minutes (probably 35 minutes as probably OT). He then basically did OT naps all day so we AP's a bit and got him into bed 1 hr 15 after his last nap (with a 11.5 hour day) and he settled to bed well which is unusual at the moment! But then he cried out about an hour after going to sleep and resettled himself, had a df at 11 which he always wakes up when we start, and woke again at 3 for a feed. He then just wouldn't settle.
I'm sure my supply is quite low at the moment as in the night and during the as he's been crying when I finish a feed, but he's draining me and getting frustrated that I don't have enough milk. He was doing the same in the night, but then I also think it may have been is teeth as eventually I gave him calpol and nurofen and fed him again and he settled eventually but had been up for an hour and a half by the time we were done. He then slept til 7.
This morning he looked tired at about 1hr 40 so we put him down at 1hr 50 and he fought it again. I went in (my husband was with him) at about the 2 hr mark and it distracted him and he fell asleep 10 minutes later after 2hrs 10 A time. He woke again, chatting away, after about 35-40 minutes again. My husband's just trying to resettle him now.
I just can't figure out what's going on? It doesn't help that other people have been putting him down and getting him up and they don't mark the time as well as I do so I'm not sure if he's doing OT or UT naps. His mood is good but he's a chilled out happy boy so that probably doesn't indicate much. Anyway, I need a bit of a plan cos I'm sooo tired of listening to him cry before and after every nap and these more frequent NWs and long NWs are exhausting. I'm also finding it really hard to relax about taking him out cos he doesn't nap well in the buggy and I feel like we're starting from bad sleep to start with. Though I think I'm just going to have to get over that or I'll go mad!
ETA: Sorry, that was a bit of a sleep deprived rushed ramble! Hope it makes some sort of sense!