Aiden's sleep has imroved so much over the last 2-3 weeks since he has finally gotten over teething his molars, and due to gradual removal. He still wakes 1-2 times in the night but settles usually with a pat. In the past he was up 3-6 times and would only BF back to sleep. Now DH can put him to bed and resettle him. I am so happy with these improvements but would love some advice on dealing with the early mornings.
THese days he wakes at around 5am give or take. As he usually hasn't had a night feed i will go in and feed him but he is wide awake. SOmetimes, like today, he will wake a little earlier (4:40) and still be somewhat tired but won't go back to sleep. THis morning I fed him and put him back in his crib. He led there for a while, chatting, fussing etc. I finally got him up at 5:40. Still very early to start the day.
I have not been able to get him to take more than about 10-10.5 hours of sleep at night since I can remember. His typical routine is as follows (he is almost 17 months):
5ish - wake, bf
7:00 breakfast
8:45 off to Montessori
12:00 home and lunch
12:30/1:00 nap - 1.5-2.5 hours (Usually about 2hrs)
5:30 dinner
7:00 asleep
THere are other activities and snacks in there as well. I know it is a very long time from wake-up time to nap, but I can't make it any earlier. I did toy with the idea of a quick captnap early in the morning but that has not been very useful (i.e. he won't go down, or if he does, it jeopardizes the afternoon nap. It doesn't get him extra sleep in any case).
He goes into his crib at about 6:40 with DH and it usually takes about 20-30 minutes for him to fall asleep (less with dh there, more with me).
ON the odd days where he wakes up later (usually if there is a longer wake-up, say he is awake for an hour at 3 ish) he does not fall asleep as easily for nap. Right now he is still nursing to sleep for that, but we will train him out of it during the holidays.
So I guess my main question is whether he needs an earlier or later bedtime. As you can see he gets about 12 hours of sleep, which is what he has been doing for months and months. If we do an earlier bedtime he may get more sleep but may not wake any later. If we shift to a later bedtime, it may be better for us (if he gradually shifts his wake-up time), but he will not likely get more sleep.
His mood is so much better now during the day. He is a different child. I just don't know whether he needs more sleep than he is getting.