Hope I'm posting this in the right spot! My lo is almost 14mo. old & I seem to be having a "disagreement" with my MIL on housecleaning during the day while my son is awake. Now, I know that he's my son and it really only matters what my husband how my husband & I feel about this, but...I would like to get the opinion of those who are in my same position & see if maybe she has a point.
I'll do some chores around the house while my lo is playing & her concern is that I should be playing with him as if I was a playmate - since he doesnt go to daycare, that is where he's getting his socialization. Well, I understand that point but I'm just having a hard time deciding, just how much time you should spend playing with your children, when your home all day with them, and how much time it is okay to let them play on their own. Whenever I do chores, I'm always in the same room as him - he'll be in the kitchen playing with pans & I'll be loading/unloading the dishwasher. I'll vacumn one floor of our house & he'll play or follow me with his "lawnmower". I'm suddenly having a hard time with this, because now I feel like I'm being neglectful so I'm constantly paranoid about not paying attention to him - and my house is a mess! I normally only do a few little chores throughout the day with him -so my gut is telling me it's okay and that he's fine - but now I just dont know.
How do you all break up your day? I know this may seem obvious, but I'm just curious how other SAHM's spend their time with their children. Thanks for your help in advance! I really need it!