This is hell. I nap today she told me she wanted her nap, so I took her up did her nap routine then as soon as I went to put her down in began. I pee in toilet, my cough mummy, rub my back, I lie on sofa, cuddle me.
I told her it was snooze time then left. DD2 woke up so I was sorting her and a I could hear DD1 shouting on me, she wasn't crying just shouting but I didn't go it and she went quiet after 10 mins and is now asleep.
I don't know what to do, I don't like leaving her shouting (even though she is not crying) but when I do engage her and go back or repeat though the door its sleepy time it seems to make her worse as she knows I am there like last night. I really don't know if I am doing the right thing or not. I would never ever leave her crying but is shouting ok to just ignore id my attention makes her worse?