Hi, what do I do if ds wakes before the df? He is 15 weeks old. On a 4 hour EASY. Hopefully he takes two 2 hour naps at 9 and one at 1 and then a catnap at 5 and in bed by 7:30. He used to get a bottle of formula at 10:30 from dh but now he is waking up anywhere betwen 9:30 and 10:15. Pat/sh does not work to get him back down and if we try to give him his bottle then he freaks! He will bf but I am thinking it is not really from hunger. However, he is really not bf well since I started solids for his reflux and he rarely eats before he goes to bed. He just rolls off my breast, arches his back and cries. I think maybe he is overtired, but even if I try earlier he won't eat. So, I have been bf him when he wakes before the df and then he is waking like clockwork between 1 and 1:15 and 4:15 and 4:30. He bf for about 5 minutes and then goes right back to sleep. I know he doesn't need these feedings, but I don't know how to fix it. I know the 3 problems (not eating well during the day, waking up before his df, and night wakings) are all related, but I don't know which one to tackle first or how to do it.
Do you think if we gave him his df earlier and then slowly pushed it back to 10:30 that might work?
I would love any other suggestions.
Thanks, Kim
How old is your child? 15.5 weeks
What’s his/her daily routine? 4 hour EASY
7:30 wake, bf
8:30 pears
9:30 sleep
11:30 wake, bf
12:30 cereal
1:30 sleep
hopefully 2 hours, sometimes 45 minutes
3:00 wake, bf
5:00 catnap (30 minutes)
6:30 bath
7:00 bf
7:15, 7:30 bed
What’s nap routine? change diaper, look at changing table mobile, swaddle with arms out (we are weaning), sing, put down awake, burrows head into mattress
How long are naps? 45 minutes to 2 hours
What's bedtime routine? Time? same bedtime routine except no swaddle as we did not see any improvement when we tried to reswaddle
Do you bottle or breastfed?? bf except for df
How much? or how long? he rarely eats for longer then 10 minutes, often only 5!
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed) one side
How many wakes per night? 3
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up? goes right back to sleep after waking, doesn't get crazy upset, burrowing head into mattress, eyes are often closed, may actually be a mantra cry but will escalate if I let him go. Patting seems to agitate him and if I pick him up, he really screams, so I know he is trying to get back to sleep
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry? see above
What have you tried to settle??see above
What do you do for A time and how long is it? alot of talking to, laying on his gymboree, some tummy time, some carrying around b/c I am chasing my 2 year old. A time is 2 1.75 to 2 hours, may be long for his age, but I have tried less and it just doens't work
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones? maybe trying to roll
Have you introduced cereal? Why, how much, and how many times a day? (for LO’s under 6 months) yes, 2 times a day and in his df bottle b/c of his reflux (on prilosec)
Do they have a prop? If so what is it? no
Do they have a lovie? no