Gosh this brings back memories! Leia was the same way and she started refusing the spoon at about 6 months! Little darling just wanted to feed herself - So I did pretty much a variety of finger foods such as pasta's - mac and cheese, or pretty much any other kind of sauce you can think of - I just boiled the noodles a little longer to make them more soft - Pieces of cheese, tortilla's, she loves toast cut into little pieces, I was worried she wouldnt be able to eat these things but you would be amazed. Then I give her fruits and veggies that are cut into small pieces - I havent steamed my own but I have used the canned veggies and fruits - either the ones with no salt added for the veggies and then the no sugar added for the fruits. Now the only way I can get Leia to eat off a spoon is if I give her one to use while I feed her and sometimes it doesnt always work. Very independent little baby.