Hiya, would it help if i tried to break down his routine for other's to see?
He wakes about 7.30-8 am (although my oh does giv ehim a bottle at 5am when he gets up for work, but he drinks it then goes back to sleep.
He will sit and play for a bit till we set out at 8.30 ish to take my eldst 2 to school.
we come back and i will then give him some breakfast about 9am which will be porrige and yogurt,or similar.
he usually has a nap between 9.30 and 10 am so depending what time he goes down he will wake between 10.30 and 11.
sometimes has a bf depending if he wants it or not.
he then has a play on the floor again (he doesnt crawl yet, sort of bum shuffles a bit) or i will do some activity with him
11.30am we go to pick my middle child up from nursery so back in the pushchair and down the school.
back home about 11.50 and he will play for a bit and have his lunch between 12.30 and 1pm.
will have another nap between 1-1.30 usually to about 2pm is
back to playing/activity till we go do school run at 3pm
get back from school run about 3.25-3.30pm.
sometimes has a bf when we get back.
will then play with my eldest till about 4.30-5.00pm when he sometimes has a little nap, not always sometimes he has his dinner first at 5 and then has a little nap about 5.30ish only 20 mins or so.
bathtime every other night around 6-6.30pm
cuddles offer breastfeed, then about 7-7.30pm he has bedtime bottle with daddy. will then either fall asleep on daddy with dummy or go in his bouncy chair and fall asleep about 8 ish. we used to put him upstairs but we would be up and down all night doing pick up putdown every 10-20 minutes, and what with being woken all night i needed some peace in the vening to keep my sanity!
my partner works 50 hours a week and is out the door at 6.15am every morning and not home till 5.45pm every evening so i do it pretty much alone and i just dont know what to do anymore
xx