Lucy, I can definitely be returning the favour! You guys are meaning so much to me! Hopefully yours will go quickly!
Last night, well, I think it went well, it definitely went. I was seeing progress at bedtime as he was starting to settle some while I was out of the room. David still cried a lot, but I could tell it might be starting to work. And I even continued WI/WO in the night time (DH wasn't thrilled about this, but kept telling him this was for the greater good.) The first time he woke up at 10pm, only about 20 minutes, yea. The second time, ugh, 1:20 until 2:45 (time he went back to sleep, but of course it took me forever!) And he was working it out considerably more during that. Of course the rest of the night was not so great on my part. He woke at 4 and I just covered him and patted his head and stayed a bit longer (he might've gone right out, but I didn't walk right out, so I don't know, I was too tired at that point.) Then he woke at 6, which normally, wouldn't be bad at all. I tried to keep him in his bed some, but he wasn't going to have that, he was ready to get up, and I had no fight left. So up he got, we went and sat in my bed and watched DH get ready. Then DH left and David and I started chatting, waiting until 7 (I will not feed him before 7, haven't for a while.) BUT we fell asleep - curses!!!! We only slept until 7:45 (I had to wake David up!!), but I think that already set us back. He hadn't been in my bed since I started this whole thing! AHHH!
So, now today, and his nap. We have started having lunch earlier so as to have an earlier nap, since David is soooo tired. Well, going down for naptime did not go well. All that settling he was starting to do last night, never saw a bit of that. And to make matters worse, he was getting so worked up that he was starting to gag (like if I hadn't of stopped it, there would have been a mess to clean up, I am certain.) So, I just layed him down the last time, put the chupa back in his mouth and rubbed his little head a bit longer.
I feel like I totally screwed up this morning! Like all the work just went ptththhhh out the window. I really hope it was just b/c it was a nap and those seem to be harder...