Hi Hun,
Oh my goodness, BTDT! There are 2 things to consider here, her development and her sleep, it could be either or both causing the problem, so can you tell me:
What her routine is
Is there anything going on personally at the moment that she may be picking up on
Do you mean that she is 3 yrs and 2 months of 2 weeks
(you need a ticker
)
WRT changing the pj's and fresh water, I am pretty much in the same place with 5 year old DS at the moment. I have indulged him (I presume you have indulged her too
) but now I go through all of those things before he gets into bed. I tell him to choose his pj's when he gets ready for bed, and that that will be what he wears for the whole night, and basically go through every one of his 'foibles' beforehand, so he knows that's the end of it.
Also the 3 year developmental leap was the worst for us, we had several weeks of awful behaviour and sleep, but it passed, as it always does.
I'll await your reply Hun, then see what we can come up with.
((HUGS))
x.