Thanks for the reply!:)
"I wonder if she might need more A time again since for some of those naps (i think the pm nap) she is waking up and cooing, which is generally an indication of needing more A time as she might not be tired enough to sleep past 45mins. How would you feel about adding an extra 15mins to her pm A time to see if she will sleep longer? In order to shift her bedtime later/wake up later, you would have to start with the morning nap so add 10/15mins to her morning A time so that the morning nap starts a little later and then do the same with afternoon nap and catnap. Or if you think 15mins is too much then start with 5 mins and add another 5 every 3/4 days or so."
So I should add 10/15 min to the first A (to shift BT and morning WU time) and at the same time add 15 min to the second A time but keep the last 2 A's the same (2 hrs)? And if that fixes EW then go back to 2 hrs of first A?
"For the night wakings, the rule of thumb is to feed at night at the same intervals as during the day (so 3.5-) but if she's up at 9pm, then you would try and resettle her. Does she seem to eat properly when she wakes at night? Do you think the E before S is confusing her or does she go down awake when you put her down for naps? For naps, after you put her down in the cot, do you have to shh/pat or are you able to leave her awake and she puts herself to sleep? Did you want me to get someone else to have a look at this thread to see if they can help you change the E to S part of the routine?"
Of I see that makes sense. Some time she has a full feed sometimes she falls asleep fast but after gulping rapidly. E before S might be consisting her and every time it's different. We had few days that she was going down awake but sleepy and she was able to put herself to sleep but now she is back to falling asleep on the breast. I don't have to shush/pat her for naps to get her to sleep eel only for CN sometimes.
I actually had a thread in Feeding forum and I was advise to gradually move her E in 10 mins increment back. It worked for few days and but today we couldn't do it.
"Fwiw things aren't always smooth with us either - my lo was taking 3 very short naps a few days in a row and I was putting her down at 6pm and she would sleep till 7am about 3 days ago and yesterday I had to wake her from naps (1.5hrs into) to protect catnap and bedtime. Bedtime was 7pm and she woke at 5.30am this morning
. I attempted to feed and back to sleep but my 8yo came into the room to tell me she had a nightmare and there was no more chance of going back to sleep
. Today she stayed up until 8.45am (school run, can't help it) and slept 1.5hrs and is now sleeping for 2hrs for pm nap (i'll wake her in a minute) and fingers crossed she'll take a catnap and not wake up at 5.30am again tomorrow! Its never ending and just when i think i have it figured out, she changes on me
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It must be hard to try and accommodate your baby's routine with 2 older siblings in the house!!! You are doing great! And omg your LO stayed up from 5:30 to 8:45 and still had good naps, amazing!! And I know it feels like you figured something out and for a few days everything goes smooth but then they change everything on us. This was hard for me at first since she is our first but now I'm rolling with the punches and learning lots as I go. I never thought this is what it take to be a mom and although it is extremely hard and it Adlai so amazing and brings me so much joy!!