He is my spirited angel. I know it is not helpful to compare him to others, and he really is a wonderful, happy boy most of the time, I guess I am just constantly tired and by the third "my baby is younger than yours and sleeps through the night" I was feeling a little fed up and not just a little worried that I was missing something that was making it hard for him to sleep through. Here is our typical day:
Awake around 5 / 5.30, try to get him back to sleep
0700 - start the day with feed usually about 7 oz
depending on what time he woke up. nap can start anywhere from 0800 to 0900 and usually will last about 40 mins, can resettle him most times to get another 40mins
1100 - feed, around 7 oz with a couple of teaspoons of pureed veg
1300 - nap, can be the best nap of the day, sometimes 2 hours, usually 1.5
1500 - feed 5 to 6 oz
1600 - try to get him down for a short nap (40 mins)
1700 - sometimes needs a top up feed here of about 4 to 5 oz
1830 - bath
1900 - feed, 6 to 7 oz followed by baby rice and fruit puree
2200 - wakes for "dreamfeed" about 5 oz
0300 - feed, about 5 oz
0400 - awake, have to resettle
0500 - awake, very hard to resettle
0600 - awake, usually just try to leave him in his cot (if he is not crying) but sometimes have to get up and start his day here, only feed him at 7am
We started solids early on docs advice to help with reflux (well controlled with Losec) and as you can see,he is still getting more than enough milk for his age.
He has no problem sleeping at night, he falls asleep on his own, no dummy, he is still swaddled (tried to sleep without it and got even less sleep!!), during the day I usually have to give him his dummy and pat / rock to calm him before a nap, does not usually take any more than 5 to 10 mins to get him to sleep. When he starts waking at 4am, it is like a daytime nap and takes ages to get him back to sleep
He manages to wriggle around in the cot, even though he is fully swaddled and often wakes trying to suck his hand. I have left his hands out but he does not self sooth with them, it just seems to wake him up even more if he can get them in his mouth
He always has his naps in his cot in a darkened room, same place he sleeps at night. Thanks for looking, any advice will be gratefully accepted