We do have a sling, which she always falls asleep in if I go out for a walk with her, so I'll try that next time. We do have a dummy too, but would rather save it for dire emergencies if possible....
Last night, we just dropped the EASY rules for the evening cluster feeding session (6-11pm) and fed her whenever she liked and had cuddles in between. It was so much easier on us all and I think for the moment, unless you suggest otherwise, we'll just be guided by her in the evenings, even if it does mean she doesn't go down till 11pm.
Can I ask a few more questions:
1. At what age can babies begin to form bad habits?
2. When do these cluster evening feeds tend to ease off and at what age should I start be more strict in the evenings?
3. Is it OK to start the EASY regime at a different time each day? e.g. I have been trying to start it at 9am, but this morning she fed at 6am, had a change of nappy, then had another half of the feed and only settled back down around 8:30, so I let her sleep till 10:20 (partly so I could get some rest!) - is this OK or is it best to be more strict?
3. Again, in the daytime, if she only settles an hour or less before the next "E" is due, can I leave her to sleep for a couple of hours and delay the next "E" or is it best not to?
4. Before we started EASY, she would sleep for 4 (sometimes 5) hour stretches in the daytime. Now I am waking her every 3 hours. Seeing as she cluster feeds so much in the evenings anyway (and is gaining good weight), can I stretch the cycles out, or is it best not to at this age?
Thank you!
Caroline