An update:
After cutting DD's nap to 1hr15m we had really good 3 days which looked like this
WU around 5:30/5:40 am
Nap around 12:45 ish (12:30 crib)
WU 2:00 ish
BT 7:10/7:15 ( tried 7:35-7:45 crib)
I was scared to mention anything about her sleep in order not to jinx it and today I shared my happiness with a relative and bang.....jinxed it. I had her in the crib at 6:45 pm and she fell asleep at 7:30 so she is back to taking a long time to settle. And then she woke up at 11:55 pm and now it's 2:25am and she is still awake!!! I went in to her room twice. First time shortly after she WU and gave her Advil cause she is teething ( although she isn't crying but happily chatting). Then I went in just after 2am because she's never had a NWU longest then 2hrs so I was worried something is up. I asked her if she is in pain but she didn't reply. So I just told her it's time to sleep and no
More talking. Diaper was ok too.
I don't even know what to do and how to get her back to sleep? She's been self settling for a long time and me trying to get her to sleep will keep her up longer. I'm so confused and frustrated. I thought I finally got it figured out.
P.S. Fell asleep at 2:40ish am, I think ( so 2hrs40m long NWU
. ) Up for the day at 6:30ish am.