Hi hun and welcome to BW
All in all things aren't as bad as they seem. So please take some comfort in knowing that and that I'm sure things will smooth out soon.
Stating EASY at 4 months can be more challenging than beginning before. For 4 months your ds (dear/darling son) has been taught that things are done erraticly and to be fed at night. So when you begin to implement EASY he becomes confused. It's absolutely normal that he resists and becomes upset and even more erractic. But trust me, if you stick to it and commit to your new routine 100% things will improve soon.
I noticed when you posted your routine that you wrote down the
exact times of everything. This leads me to believe you are watching the clock, and EASY isn't so much about watching the clock
It setting up a predictable E-A-S pattern for your ds. So if one day his nap is 15 mins shorter then that's ok, you just go to the E part of the routine and so on. Lots of mommies tend to get worried if one day their ds has a 3 hour nap, they worry what that will do to their "schedule". And that's the biggest misconception about EASY, it's not a schedule, it's a routine. So if something like that happens just roll with it and go on with your day
Obviously there are days when naps are short and our babies tend to be cranky, but we can't all have good days right?
The main goal of EASY is to have a good day to day with the occasional very good and not so good days.
Have you taken the
Know Your Baby quiz? That can shed a lot of light on how to tackle problems.
For the most part I think your EASY routine looks good and he seems to need help extending his naps. He's waking pretty much at the 45 min mark, which happens more than you think. Try
Wake to Sleep which worked for us very well. If you continue to have trouble after trying wake to sleep and PU/PD then stopping by the naps boards may be a good idea. The mods there can offer you tons of help and support.
MY questions for you are:
What is his total milk intake?
What does his A time consist of?
Do you have a wind down routine for naps and betime?
Hope I've been able to help you a bit
- Beca