The story in the book of the New Zealand mum at the conference was sad. I can imagine I would also feel a bit invaded if someone else had fed my baby in those cir!@!stances. It's interesting how the other mum felt it to a perfectly standard thing to do.
Can you fill us in on the whole story - I assume its about bfing another womans child without permission, how did she react?
The mother involved had left her child in an evening creche run by the place that was hosting the event she was attending. She figured her child would need a feed at about 10-11pm and asked the creche to come and get her. They didn't come to get her, and although she thought about going to check, she figured it must be ok as they would come and get her if it wasn't. When it got to midnight (the time the creche ended) she went back to collect her daughter. She found the daughter sat on a woman's knee, very happy, but wide awake! I think she made a comment about how suprised she was to see her daughter awake and in a good mood in the middle of the night (!) and the other woman just said...'I fed her'.
Unfortunatley it then got a little out of hand for this poor lady as the press ran with the story. She felt the whole issue was not about breast vs bottle or boob vs boob, but about consent, but the media turned it into something else, and almost (as often happens in rape cases) made it out to be almost her own fault. Sad but true. The woman who had fed the baby never apologised, just said that she thought she was doing her a favour (but did eventually submit to blood tests and was clear) and the creche worker said that she had wanted to intervene but had been overpowered by the lady and her friends. (who it seemed had a cross-feeding circle)
My own view?? I actually don't have a problem with it at all. Full stop. And that has really suprised me!!!!