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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #30 on: November 02, 2007, 18:33:23 pm »
Hi Dana-

I live in Alaska -so as you can image that all family is in the lower 48.  Nyah's first time on a plane was 3 weeks she had flown 3 more times since then (now 6months) When I was nursing I would nurse her on take off and also on landing allowing her jaw to move so her ears would pop. I used the same method with the bottle-- just stimulated her enought to suck for a 2-3 minutes and she feel right back to sleep. Never any issues - she slept through short flights (little puddle jumps ) and also (long overnight flights) I ALWAYS fly at night - so much easier on her as she is getting more active.  Take care!
I'm sorry if this isn't the right place to post...but I am looking for advice for anyone that has taken their baby on a plane at such a young age.  We are traveling the first weekend in June from CA to NY and will be traveling straight through (5 1/2 hour or so flight). DS will be just 5 months old at the time.  I am a NERVOUS WRECK about: 1) his ears killing him - how do I insure that I can get him to eat or take a binky when we take off or land?) 2) that he will be so off with the time difference (3 hours) that he will never sleep, etc. and 3) all of the CRAP that I have to travel with will make me tired.

I have been posting here for a while and I am happy to report that Dante is FINALLY on EASY the way he should be.  I no longer have to rock him to sleep as he takes a binky and falls asleep on his own.  He is now open to the DF and only wakes once at around 4am or so for a feeding.  We have started on solid food (cereal last week and we will try sweet potatoes this weekend) and he is really thriving.  I am so happy with how EASY EASY has been in the last month and am so nervous that it will all go out the window.

The good news (I think) is that we are taking overnight flights there and back, so I am hoping that Dante will sleep.

ANyone out there that can help?

THanks,
Dana
You will be surprised at how your lo will adapt. My ds is the same way - he will only sleep in his crib...but on the 6 flights he has been on in the last 2 months (he is 6 1/2 months) - he slept in my arms.  Once I saw him getting tired, I got up from my seat and went to the galley where i put a blanket over our heads (to make it dark) and just had quiet time. Then, the white noise of the plane took care of everything else.

I know that some others suggest trying this kind of thing before getting on the plane.

Hope that you all have a good flight.

Best of luck!

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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #31 on: August 01, 2008, 01:53:22 am »
Thank you all!  My 7 month old baby has been on easy for a month now.  My grandma passed away 2 weeks ago and we had to travel internationally.  I got so much support and ideas from your experiences and even though it was a trying time for me, traveling was not.  The following is my experience.  We flew at midnight from San Francisco to Costa Rica with a 45 minute layover in El Salvador.  Total air time -6.5 hours. That day, we kept my son on EASY as usual and woke him up when it was time to go to the airport.  He slept in the car.  At the airport, he was totally awake and alert, but as soon as the plane took off and the lights were off, he slept until morning, which just happened to be close to his 6:00 a.m. wake up time.  I tried to nurse him during take off, but that didn't happen.  He was too distracted with the new experience.  Fortunately, I gave him Tylenol a few minutes earlier and that seemed to work because he had no earache.  This was the case in the 4 planes (total) we took to go there and come back.  We switched planes in El Salvador and he fell asleep soon after take off. May I say that taking a sling is the best you could do!  You are hands free and your arm won't fall asleep from the many hours you're holding your baby.  In addition, it gives them a familiar and secure place close to you.  Once we arrived, I tried to keep him awake till it was time for his scheduled 12:00 p.m. nap.  I didn't bother changing to local time since there was only 1 hour difference.  He slept for 2 hours.  I had to wake him up.  After that first nap, he was already on EASY schedule.  He actually slept better there-might have been the tropical rain that makes naps so much more pleasant.  I did do a few PU/PD on occasion, but nothing I wouldn't have done at home.  On our return, we had an evening flight, which coincided with his night time sleep.  Again, he slept in both flights.  Once we arrived, it was midnight and by the time we got home and he was asleep again, it was close to 3:00 a.m.  We let him sleep in until he woke up at around 9:00 a.m.  It was a bit harder to get back on EASY this time- about a week.  But I think that it had more to do with him learning to crawl and pull himself up in the crib, and dropping his catnap.  It's been a week now, and things are pretty smooth. 
I was so terrified of doing this trip alone, but thanks to this community not only did I succeed, but people couldn't believe I was traveling with a 6 month old and my family was so impressed with how alert, social, well-behaved, disciplined, and pleasant my son is.  Thanks Tracy and thanks to you all.  May God bless you. 
A few tips: take your own playpen (I couldn't have done EASY without it), travel light when it comes to carry on (all I had was my son in the sling and the diaper bag attached to a small carry on suitcase).  Pack plenty of diapers and clothes and a shirt for you and I put most of his clothes and diapers in the carry on in case the bags were lost.  Relax and enjoy!  You'll be surprised at how your little one will shine and you don't want them to feed from your anxiety.   8)






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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #32 on: December 17, 2008, 22:57:47 pm »
Hello everyone, I have read through all of the posts so far and there are lots of great tips for flying! (Thank you!)...
I can't seem to find tips for when you actually get to your destination.
We are taking our DS to Florida (from Toronto) in January (he will be 6.5mos by then).  He is on EASY now and generally sleeps 7:45pm-7:00am.  Although there is no time change and it is a relatively short flight, does anyone have tips for settling the baby once you get to where you're going? I'm so scared that all of our hard work over the past couple of months will go to waste when we go on vacation.  Unfortunately, he is stuck in the same room as us in a playpen.  I will try to bring as much from home as I can (lovely, pillow, blankets, etc.).  He doesn't generally settle or sleep well away from home, so I'm a little scared.  Any suggestions, or anyone have any experience?
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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #33 on: December 17, 2008, 23:19:21 pm »
Hugs!  DS flew for the first time at 3 months.  It was soooo much easier than I thought it would be.   So, tips:

(1)  nursing/feeding at take-off and landing works brilliantly

(2)  put a stack of extra muslins in your bag - for spillages etc

(3)  leave your watch on your "own" time and stick to EASY [for us, this meant a bedtime at 9pm local time but also meant routine wasn't disrupted and we didn't have to mess round with changes]

(4) take a sleeping bag, teddy and blanket that smell of home so LO can feel secure and cosy (I saw you're already doing this)  I put the fleecy blanket we took with us on the bed at home for a couple of nights before we left to make sure it got the "right" smell...

(5) take any meds you think you might need with you - can be tricky to find a pharmacy/brand you prefer at short notice and its one less thing to worry about. 

Oh and don't worry: as far as DS was concerned, a plane was just a car ride with more cuddles.   He was utterly cool about it (unlike his mommy!) and I'm sure yours will be too! 

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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #34 on: December 18, 2008, 15:50:21 pm »
Thank you for those tips! DH seems to think that "everything will be FINE!" and I tend to always think the worst. 
Did your DS manage to stay on your EASY while you were away? And/or did he manage to get back on track easily once you returned home? I think that's my biggest fear.
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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #35 on: December 18, 2008, 19:06:55 pm »
Sounds exactly like us!   We were having serious napping issues before we went on holiday and they actually got BETTER thanks to the trip.  The first night back, DS woke up 4 times.  After that, it was back to normal.  Hugs!!

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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #36 on: December 19, 2008, 14:08:30 pm »
Thank you! I'll cross my fingers that it goes as well for us as it did for you :)
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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #37 on: December 23, 2008, 23:04:42 pm »
we are flying out tomarrow, I hope all goes well with our 5 month old.

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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #38 on: January 24, 2009, 16:59:14 pm »
Flying to Oz in a couple of weeks on my own so will heed all the advice.. Thanks.

Hope all your upcoming flights go well! :)

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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #39 on: January 24, 2009, 17:25:56 pm »
Just so you know, our flights went very well.  We were able to get an extra seat for him and he sat in his chair (other than take off and landing) and played with a few different toys that we had with us.  It was a little tricky getting him to fall asleep around his nap times.  I think he's at the age where he's so interested and distracted by his surroundings that he couldn't calm down enough to fall asleep easily.  After a lot of cuddling, rocking, shhhing, patting, etc he was able to grab a catnap on each flight.  I also brought his cookies, which takes him 10 mins or so to finish, but helped keep him busy. 
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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #40 on: April 10, 2009, 13:10:02 pm »
I just read your original post, didn't have time to read any futher (babes only sleep for so long and you have got to get in a lot of things in that time =) ) Anyway i have a 3 mo. old and we just returned from FL.  What a wonderful trip.  Someone advised me "A nervous flyer makes for a nervous flyer"  your kids will pick up on your frustation, nervousnes and so on.  Although this is not avoidable all the time it is helpful to keep in mind.  Mine did great.  In spite of unforseen layovers and whatnot.  My worst times were in the airport its self.  You just have to resolve if he cries he cries!  People will stare and whisper to eachother but you do what you know is right.  There are times where you just can't meet the need that second!  Also don't be afraid to ask for help, to put things up on the conveyer belts and hold things for you.  Give your self plenty of time to get through the airport, but don't feel rushed because there are people behind you and it seems you are taking forever.  They can wait, be kind and gracious but do what you need to do in a calm manner.  As for the plane itself.  My guy was absolutly fine during take off and touch down, never made a peep!  I did have a bottle and paci ready for if his ears did start up.  And also for when he started to fuss, in went the bottle.  Every baby is different, and just know that it won't last forever, soon enough you will be at your destination.  It may take a few days or week to get back on schedule but I am sure you will make it and enjoy your time in Cal.

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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #41 on: August 13, 2010, 06:06:08 am »
Dear All, We just made the move from the east coast of the US to Asia with a 12 hour time difference with our 7 month old son. He has been a solid 2 hour napper twice a day since 5 months and was sleeping through the night. He has an 8 oz bottle every 4 hours and baby food 3x per day. Since we have arrived in Asia he is so overtired that nap time has become a nightmare. He is basically not sleeping which obviously messes up his nighttime. He is also refusing to eat anything other than his bottle. He was once a smiley happy baby and is now screamer. I can't seem to encourage him back towards an EASY routine. Any thoughts or advice would be so appreciated!

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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #42 on: August 18, 2011, 21:11:04 pm »
We just flew with Hazelbell to Chicago to visit Mor-mor and Abuelo for a month. HB was so good both ways. We just tried to buy the tickets for when she was in her A phase taking the Babywhisperer's advice to not try and travel while someone is asleep.

When we got off the plane, someone came up to us and said, "You guys really treated her well and she was a pleasure to be seated near. You are good parents." It made us feel really good. We owe it all to the Babywhisperer.

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Re: Any advice for flying with 5 month old?
« Reply #43 on: December 22, 2011, 07:40:09 am »
There is some really good advice in here!
i have 1 question though. i am travelling with my 3 mo LO from India to the US. this means a 12 hr diff in time. LO is ebf, so will my milk supply be an issue due to the time change?
Pooja, but i prefer Sara's mum :)