The situation here is a bit unreal. DH was home on Sunday & Monday, and so, to give me a break, he did all naps & resettles. Since then, I can't put her down without insane amounts of crying. I thought maybe his technique was different or there was a prop involved but it is the same as always! He did not believe that two days could have caused this, so this morning he put her down, and she was asleep in 2 mins -- he just swaddled her and popped her in the crib & Voila! No resettle needed either. I did the afternoon nap, and she went to sleep after 45 MINUTES of crying. The wind down works well for both DH and me but she gets drowsy with him but seems to wake up more & more with me. Finally she goes extremely still and I put her down & she starts babbling & smiling at me. If I persist with heavy hand, the crying begins.
She is on a 4hr EASY. I usually put her down for all naps & bedtime but for the past 10 days DH has been doing morning nap. She usually goes down equally well with both of us.
A few points --
1. Although she is a textbook baby, she is more than a little touchy, according to me. She will not let DH give her a bath/ massage or put her to bed at night.
2. I am still able to put her to bed at night with no problem.
3. Before we were on a 4hr EASY, I was the only one playing with her & putting her for naps. DH would grab some time here and there. Now I let him play with her morning & evening and FIL comes over most days for the mid-morning playtime. As a result, I am not getting much playtime with her.
4. I think a wonder week is on as she is very clingy, crying randomly & seems very low.
Any thoughts? This seems nuts!