Hey Sarah!
We do breakfast at home, which is a change, and it has been entertaining trying to figure out new breakfast foods because weekends were the only times we did breakfast at home (she ate at the sitter's before she started daycare) - typically eggs or pancakes, which she obviously can't have those every day! So far, she's really excited about breakfast cereal. She is getting better about feeding herself with a spoon and not getting it absolutely everywhere, so cereal is probably what breakfast will be most days, because the novelty of the spoon really does help her eat better. Since the spoon is such a novelty, it takes AGES for her to eat. DH is in charge in the mornings so I can get ready without dd under foot which is great. But the last two mornings we've had to cut breakfast short to get out the door and to work on time, so we're still tinkering with timings of everything
V does get two snacks at daycare, one is around 9am, and is usually something light like a piece of toast, a pop-tart, graham crackers, etc. and a sippy of milk, which is why they want real breakfast to be done at home. I usually pick her up before afternoon snack, which is usually water and cookies, and we come home and she has cheese and water or some other healthy snack like fruit.
I think the main reason you can't bring food for your child is because of the jealousy factor - there's only one bag of snack for your child, but once all the other kids see it, they want it too, but can't have it, major meltdowns ensue, etc. So it is not a problem for me that I can't send food with her, and I really do want her to learn that she has to eat what is presented to her
I think a lot of our issues - both night hunger, and some behavior stuff (tantrums and temper) are just related to the upheaval her little life has gone through. She's been with the same babysitter since 3mo, and now she doesn't see her anymore, and that has to be hard for a little thing like her iykwim? I have really made a conscious effort to spend good quality time with her when we get home for the afternoon, AND to feed her more. Tonight we went out to eat, and she ate really well, and then we came home and I managed to get her to take a 4oz container of applesauce AND almost a 4oz container of yogurt. Still took a large sippy of milk before bed, but managed to spit some of that up due to coughing after she went to bed
On top of everything, she's cutting her 8th tooth, and I think it is causing her some discomfort too as she is taking 30+ minutes to fall asleep at night, and she's gnawing on things she typically wouldn't put in her mouth.
So there's our issues
It could be a lot worse, she could be sick with another ear infection (knock on wood that doesn't happen again anytime soon). I just get very frustrated with night wakings. As V has gotten older, I swear her sleep goes through stages where we're up more now than we were when she was a newborn!! With the move to daycare I anticipated some sleep problems, so I am handling it as best I know how, but am praying we get a full night's sleep tonight. I get too grumpy with DH when I'm up at night, and that isn't his fault
Thanks for listening and letting me vent!!