The last week has looked something like this
7am wake - eat
8:15-8:30 Depends.. is when she naps
Sleeps to about 10am
10-10:30 eat
11:15-11:30 nap
11:45 have to wake her so we can get her brother from kindergarten
12pm - lay her back down for a nap. she will nap to about 1 or 1:30
2:15-2:45 nap, depends on when she last ate
4 or 4:30 eat
cat nap from 5-5:45ish depends on when she last woke up
wake at 6pm
6:30 bath, massage, jammies, bottle
7pm bedtime
dreamfeed 10pm
Last night even though we did a dreamfeed, she still woke at 2am and had a 4.5 oz feed (that is a full big feed for her)
Sometimes its 3 or 3:30 she eats, sometimes she refuses to eat in the middle of the night at all but still wakes up asking for food. Its erratic night waking.
This morning I am totally confused because she woke at 6:30 but didnt feed her until 6:50ish.. Its now 8am and she is not showing signs that she is tired.. so she'll have an awake time of about 1.75 or 2 hours... isnt that too much at her age? (14wks)
I cant get her to eat anymore than she wants to. If I feed her on a 3 hour schedule or a 3.5 hour schedule she still eats the same amount of oz at the end of the day. She would even skip feeds so that her oz at the end of the day would be the same (not like she does this cause she really knows, I guess her body tells her to? lol I dont know...)
Giving her gas drops doesnt do much to help her to take more. She just farts more. She's not a spitter. Her poops are normal, she's about 13ish lbs...maybe 14lbs..
From what I understand she is a textbook/angel... Im so lost lol. The 3 hour EASY was so great.. the inbetween 3-4 hour EASY is so confusing and messed up I find myself clock watching and watching her cues because either a) the clock is so erratic in connection with her cues that I dont know whats what anymore and b) her cues literally change from day to day depending on what happened the night before.
I know she can sleep through the night. She did it once when she was 6 wks old and once last wk? or the wk before? ... She can do it! The last time she slept through, she started rolling over the next day.
Edited to Add: This morning she did an awake time of 6:45-8:45am and went down to nap no problems. Its now 9:30 and she's passed out still!! Is it typical for a 14wk old to have an awake time of 2 hours but eating on a 3.5 hour schedule? I will see when she gets hungry after waking up (or even how long her nap will last for that matter) and let you know.