I agree with that Shark.
Lastcall...I know that it can be scary when our lo's refuse food, and it's hard to remind ourselves of this, but truly, she will not starve herself. I agree that sitting to eat a meal is a very imporatnt skill, and one that our lo's need to master. Plus, on a different level, she is kind of running the show there, getting you to chase her, and I find that troublesome. Don't mean to offend in any way, just my honest opinion.
May I ask...does your dd use a highchair? Our dd is still in hers at 2.5....and I have no immediate plans to remove it. We were at a barbeque this weekend, and she sat a little table with a little chair, and between almost every bite, she went to get up to go play. Totally understandable, of course...but I knew she was hungry (we are fairly routine, it was nearly 7pm and she hadn't eaten since snack at 3:30) and knew she was getting up because she "could". At home we sit together, minimal distraction except for music sometimes, and she happily gobbles up whatever we put it front of her. That experience made me see that I am not ready for the highchair to go just yet.
How does you dd handle eating when she is in nursery? Does she sit and eat? What is the nursery policy about sitting while eating?
Lastly...I think it's important to allow the child *some* control over regulating when they have had enough to eat. (within reason, of course, for example I have to stop my dd sometimes when she asks for her 4th or 5th helping of fruit...I truly believe she would eat fruit until she exploded!) If the cereal your eats is healthy, and she is eating her veggies that she likes, plus the fish/poultry etc...I would be ok with that. ?? Some toddlers don't have anywhere near that variety!