I am starting to become very worried about this....my DS is going to be 18 months in a few days and he is a terrible eater. He has good days (rarely) and lots of bad days where all I can really get into him is fruit.
My sisters, who all have kids around the 1-3 year range (which don't have this problem), keep telling me to offer him what we have for lunch or dinner and if he doesn't eat it, then he should get nothing. Normally, I used to cave and would feed him things I know he likes and will eat....all crap food by the way, but I don't like to see him not eat.
My fear is if I do that (not give him food he likes), which I have been doing lately, and there is many a meal that he won't eat one bite and I know he is hungry because he protests me getting him down from his chair, that I am conditioning his body to think that he is starving. I have personally experienced this myself (not intentionally), you get busy, forget to eat and go to find that you haven't had anything to eat that day....I eventually became anorexic because my body stopped asking for food and I was never hungry. I want to avoid this in my son.
He loves fruit, like blueberries, strawberries, raspberries, peaches, pears, watermelon, bananas, grapes...etc and honestly would only eat that if I let him.
Breakfast - is his best meal....he will have a piece of toast or a pancake and some fruit from the above list.
Lunch - he loves Kraft Dinner, Kraft single cheese & bologna, pizza pops....I admit....all crap food....but I will also give him a yogurt & fruit.
Dinner....is a disaster....will not eat anything we eat except if it is spaghetti or pizza. I will not give him any fruit or yogurt if he has not made any attempt to eat supper. So most nights, he will have NOTHING to eat.
I am at my wits end ladies, I keep hearing that he won't let himself starve but if I don't offer him food....then ultimately he is starving himself.....and he just won't try new foods or attempt anything that is not familiar to him.
Please I need some help.....is it possible for him to become anorexic? He is losing weight, I can tell, his clothes are fitting way more loose.....he is walking now but I am worried he is just not getting enough calories.
I don't think his teeth is bothering him because he will eat only what he likes......
HELP!!!