Hi Andrea,
He's been doing the short naps for about 4 or 5 weeks, but the "impossible to extend naps" for about 4 days. His routine is pretty much like this:
E 6AM
A UNTIL ABOUT 715
S 730 - 9 (WITH EXTENDING OF NAP)
E 9
A UNTIL 1015
S 1030 - 1200 (AS ABOVE)
E 12
A UNTIL 115
S 130 - 300
E 3
A UNTIL 415
S 430 - 515
A BATH
E 600 - 630
BEDTIME 630-700
Of course the last few days have not really been as routine as that, his naps area nightmare and sometimes it takes so long to get him back to sleep after 45min. Eg this morning, awake at 6am, feed, playtime and asleep by 730, awake at 745, resettled and still asleep now and its 10am! THe thought crossed my mind to wake him to keep on schedule, but knowing that he may not have another good nap today I thought I'd leave him.
His wind down, (which I am now paying more attention to since posting this yesterday) is sing a few songs, change nappy and sit quietly in his dimmed room. Last night and this morning though, I walked around the garden with him, rocking him and singing for about 10 min which seemed to really calm him a lot. Normally when I swaddle him he screams bloody murder, but last night and this morning was a lot more calm. I wrap him up and cuddle him until he's calm and drowsy, and put him in his cot before he's actually asleep - but really really drowsy. (lately though I have made sure he's alseep because I'm so desperate for him not to wake up)
When I go in to help him back to sleep I go in at about 30-35 min, and wait for his waking signs. I do the "wake to sleep", my arm on his body, and shield his eyes and shhh, this used to work and he'd more often than not just go back to sleep. Now he wakes up and is WIDE AWAKE and the only way I can get him back to sleep is to pick him up and rock/pat/ssh him back to sleep.
Hopefully it is just a phase. I don't have any support, no family or friends so sometimes I just want to scream. We're going on a holiday in 2 weeks to visit family and I'm really not looking forward to it because I know how it's gong to throw out his routine even more.
Any advice would be so much appreciated!
And it's nice to know I'm not alone! :wink: