Thanks in advance for reading everyone :-)
My little boy is 3.5 months old. We were going with the flow up until Christmas but recently looked at his sleep and decided he was probably over tired and I was misreading his tired cues as hunger. He has always been fed to sleep which is hard on me.
We thought we'd try the EASY routine to help him nap and sleep better. We've been trying it for 2 days and already he's better. Makes a huge difference catching him before he gets over tired.
I do need a bit of direction though on how to transition from feeding to sleep to self settling.
We are working well on the naps in the day and i'm managing to get him to sleep by gently rocking him in my arms, shhshhing and patting him. Already a vast improvement from the feeding to sleep!! At night he co sleeps in a cot with the side down, next to us. At bedtime, we are still feeding to sleep as we thought we'd tackle naps first.
However as soon as we put him down anywhere, in his cot, pram or even just beside us on the bed, he will wake up either as soon as he's down or within 10/15 minutes. We have to wait over 40 minutes before he's asleep enough for us to put him down.. zzzzzz....
So how do I get from this, to a baby who will settle in his cot on his own?
I've had a bit of luck sitting next to him and patting his tummy when he starts to stir but if I don't get there quick enough, he just won't have it and I have to pick him up again.
Do I need to try shh-pat or PU/PD? He's 14 weeks but was 3 weeks early (does that make a difference?)
Thanks in advance everyone :-) I love the EASY routine already. Just need to iron out some issues.