I'm not sure this is where I should begin but since it's the nw's that are affecting me most I'll start here. My lo is 19 weeks old and waking on average every 3.5 hours at night. We've been a little wonky with our routine lately since we had family in town and then we all had colds around here but now that we are better I'm ready to get this thing sorted out.
He's on a 3 - 4 hour easy (if that's possible.) Our routine has varied so much recently (maybe that's the problem.)
7:00 wake up
A:
E: at 8:00 since he had last eaten at 5:45 am
S: fell asleep in van I had an appointment
A: woke at appt was a bit fussy (of course)
E: at 10:15
S: fell asleep nursing till about 11:00
A: home and in swing, falling asleep in swing
S: 12:00 - 1:00 with one paci replug at 20 min.
E: 1:15
A:
S: w/d and in bed at 2:45 ish, wide awake and not seeming ready to lay down, in swing till 3:15 when I get 7 mile stare, in bed right away, replug at 3:45 and won't resettle
A: 6:15 ish bath
E: last nursing session before bed.
S: in bed at 6:40 awake but with paci, no replugs
10:15 wake up/feed, right back down (I don't do a DF because I'm usually in bed by 8:30 and with all these nw's I can't stay up)
12:30 poop, change and held and rock for a few minutes with paci and put back down
1:10 wake up/feed, right back down
4:30 wake up/feed
5:50 wake up/pooping and up for today.
Oh, my gosh...this is so long and I'm sorry but I'm desperate for some help.
So...I guess my questions are first, should I start by getting his feeds closer to the 4 hour mark. If so it means that sometimes he could be awake for over an hour before he feeds, or I need to try to get him to have two naps in between feeds because right now I can't get him to sleep past 45 minutes. He can sleep longer than 45 since for a little while we were having at least one 1.5 hour nap in the day with two 45 minute naps and maybe a 30 minute cat nap.
Also, is the swing a good or bad thing to use for a wind down. I use it when I know he should be getting sleepy however, I know it could cause him to be prematurely sleepy as well. I also use it if he's had a short nap to see if I can get him back to sleep. Quite often it works and it makes him going down for naps easy but my gut tells me not to let him get used to this as a wind down.
Again, I'm sorry for how long this is but I need someone from the outside looking in to give me some much needed advice...sock it to me!
Thanks,
Noelle