For the first few days of the pat and shush program, it worked perfectly, hardly any crying. After about day 5, the technique appears useless. The idea that a baby at 4 weeks cannot concentrate on three things, those being crying, patting, and shushing is completely erroneous. I guarantee they can because she screams right through the session. Also, I swaddle her. I immobilize her arms as she flails around alot, and her hands tend to wake her up and knock out her pacifier. She does dislike having her arms wrapped up in the swaddle, so I am not sure what to do here. She will kick and fuss trying to get free, and if I let her free, she looks like she is being electrocuted with the flailing. She knocks herself in the face etc, and cannot settle down, even with the pat and shush. It really seems like every new thing I try works for a bit, and then she adapts to it. I have been using the Horse Whisperer's pat and shush technique diligently for over a week, and the results seem to be diminishing. I know she urges consistency and warns about going back to old ways, but come on!!!!. Isn't this warning really an easy out when parents say the her technique didn't work. "Well, you didn't stick with it, you went back to the old ways, no wonder it failed" Convenient. It doesn't take that long to form human habit, and I'm into day 11. Any advice?