Hi,
I'm a FTM to a spirited/touchy 6 week old baby boy, who is usually bright and alert and very playful when he's awake, but we can't get into a routine with him at all, and he just will not sleep. I've been reading the baby whisperer cover to cover to look for what I/we might be doing wrong with him, but we're just at the end of our tethers. He's now been awake since 0830 (it's 4pm) and despite trying to put him down for naps when we see him give the sleep cues (yawning, face scratching etc) he will not sleep. We've started taking him through to the bedroom after the second yawn (usually after about one hour of A time, through which he's alert and engaging and showing no signs of tiredness), but the minute we start the swaddle/shush/pat, he goes into total meltdown. He screams and screams and flails arms and legs, fights out of his swaddle and then scratches either me or himself (so totally overtired by then).
We've tried winding him down before we get to the hour so as to preempt the tiredness, but with the same result, except now he seems really angry with his cries, as if he's not tired enough
Please can someone help us - when we do manage to get him to sleep, it's taking about 30-40 mins of the shush-pat to transition into his cot, and then he can still be awake within half an hour.
Yesterday went like this (please forgive the long long post -it was a very long day
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0615 Woke from sleep and fed 10 mins
0630 Nappy change
0715 Reswaddled, fighting it. Shush/pat for 30 mins.
0915 Awake and hungry but calm - fed 15 mins
0930 Wash and playing time
1015 First yawns, escalating to crying hard, arching back and flailing. Into pram and out for walk
1030 Asleep in pram
1100 Awake and crying
1110 Given dummy
1130Asleep
1200 Awake and crying hard - nappy changed
1215 Feed 30 mins
1250 Nappy changed again
1300 In swing, reading baby book
1320 Yawning but calm
1330 Started wind down, not swaddled
1340 Asleep in crib
1415 Awake - attempted shush pat to send him back to sleep, kept jolting awake and crying +++
1450 Feed 25 mins
1520 Nappy change, playing, alert and happy
1540 Yawning - taken through to wind down but by time got to bedroom, already arm flailing, scratching, crying
1550 Shush pat started
1615 Asleep in crib
1640 Awake and crying
1700 Tried to settle back to sleep - jolted awake x4 crying hard
1740 Skin to skin to feed
1800 Bathed and massaged
1830 Feed
1910 Asleep in crib (asleep while feeding)
1930 Awake and crying, flailing etc
1935 Restarted shush pat - screaming cry not settling at all
2010 Abandoned sleep and brought out into living room so we could have dinner
2020 Feed
2100 In bouncy chair, alert and kicking about
2120 Yawns and obviously tired - taken through to wind down
2130 Swaddled and started shush pat, but screaming crying
......still crying
.......still crying
2300 Nappy changed and feed
2330 reswaddled and shush patted
2400 finally down in crib, asleep with pat shush
0200 Feed
0330 Feed
0530 Feed
0810 Feed
Exhausted.....
If anyone has any suggestions we would really appreciate it