Hello!
My message follows the schedule! Sorry I am having a hard time pasting it in the spot I wanted at the end.
3/30
4:25 woke crying, nursed, fell to a very light sleep, startled easily, got to crib and patted to sleep when startled from laying down and swaddling
6:20 wake crying, unable to self sooth, escalated, tried rocking, wide awake,
6:40 nursed
7:00 play w daddy before work
7:20 tummy time
7:40 play exersaucer
3/29
Woke a few times throughout the night , fussed but was able to settle on her own
4:00 crying, nursed for 20 minutes, sleeping in crib at 4:45
5:30 & 6 - fussed but stopped, assumed she was sleeping but at 7 she was awake laying in her crib...No clue how long she was awake
7:05 - nursed,
Tummy time, exersaucer, 8:45 run, lots of yawning, 9:15 played on floor to push to 9:30 - very fussy
9:25 nursed, slowed w pauses at 9:33
10:00 eyes popped open, tried to rock, tried swing for 45 minutes, fussing escalated to crying, dad rocked, until 11, no dice
12 nursed
12:30-1 slept in car
2:00 nurse
3:20 nurse to try for nap, 3:30 slowed, lots of pauses, unlatched first try, asleep, 335 startled & , nursed for 3 min, rooted, 3:50 startled & rooted again, nursed, tried to unlatch multiple times, kept rooting, 4:08 unlatched and rocked on shoulder,
4:15 popped awake, play time on floor, in exersaucer, then pack n play, got fussy
6:26 nursed
Relaxing play in bed, books, songs
7:15 bathtime
7:26
7:38 asleep
8:10 wake crying, tried to rock, arched back & fussed
8:16 nursed
8:28 unlatched after a few attempts
8:42- cried in sleep & woke up, tried to press in arms to settle, just cried
8:54 unlatched, in crib by 9:00
9:05 & 9:30 woke crying, crying w her eyes closed, looked like maybe she was dreaming, patted on her back and settled right back to sleep both times
3/28
5:00 nurse, doze off and on, unable to settle back to sleep, even co-sleeping did not work
6:00 fairly alert, continued to try nursing
6:45 out of bed, play time
8:22 nurse (slowed way down/long pauses at 8:30), flutter sucked off & on, unlatched 8:39, 8:42 startled, awake and rooting, nursed again, almost asleep then let-down 8:46, 8:48 slow down, long pauses, 8:50 unlatched first try! 8:59 startled & woke. Tried to get back to sleep rocking, pooped her pants
9:09 rocked cradle, yawned.a bunch, looked drowsy, started arching her back & getting fussy, 9:22 rocked on shoulder, started crying 9:25, put in swing fussed off and on. 10:00 crying escalated, tried rocking again, gave up,
No play time,
10:30 Put in carrier, started getting fussy almost immediately
10:50 swaddled & nursed, 10:59 sucking slowed, pauses, tried to unlatch, 3rd try, 10 second between tries
11:02 asleep, placed in crib at 11:15
Very fussy
12:30 nurse
2:30 nurse,
2:40-3:05 slept in arms, startled multiple times, nursed back to sleep,
3:05 tried to rock back to sleep, quickly fell back to sleep, in crib at 3:25
4::05 awake
4:36 nurse
5:10 playtime in play pen. Fussed, moved to exersaucer, played there for 1/2 hr, moved to bouncer, then last hour played in bed, then stories, singing, rocking
7:00 bathtime
7:15 nursing, slowed really quick, unlatched a few times, then switched sides to get a good feeding
7:33 unlatched first try, pressed firmly on arms for 10 min to counter startles, seemed to work!
8:00 woke 5 minutes after placed in crib, rocked for 30 minutes,
8:30 nursed to sleep, unlatched herself at 8:40 asleep, pressed on arms for startles
9:00 in crib
Hello!
my touchy 5 month old must be nursed to sleep, is extremely difficult to get down for naps, and then wakes while still in arms, has lots of jolts and roots right after drifting off to sleep to get back to sleep, sometimes wakes when being placed in crib, and often wakes just 10 minutes and sometimes 30-60 minutes after being placed in crib.
I'm trying to remove the nurse prop through gentle removal, but in my desperation to get her to sleep, I end up letting her fall to sleep on the breast because the unlatching seems to sometimes stimulate her, compounding the issues.
She is a very sensitive baby...to sounds and visual stimulation. I have a feeling this plays a role in her sleep. I use white noise, swaddle, and darkened the windows.
I've read about the 5 s's and I'm going to implement them, in addition I'm going to camp out and watch for jolts and try to help her sleep through them. I haven't really seen a pattern to try w2s but that's mainly because she is napping so erratically.
What I'm wondering is can I do anything else to help her fall to sleep?
She is always giving me mixed messages and I don't know how to tell when she's overstimulated, overtired, undertired....She has always been a very confusing baby
how do you know if you are doing the right amount of stimulation
We are 'trying' to stick with the 4 hr EASY, but here's a sample of our last couple days (see above).