My DS is 9 mths old and for the past 2 nights, has woken up and stayed up for 3 1/2 to 4 hrs. He cannot fall asleep on his own, he has to be rocked to sleep, a problem I thought I had a chance of fixing, until "Grandma" changed that by running in at the slightest peep.
I don't do PU/PD , but instead, cuddle him in his crib and pat his back. This rarely works and I revert back to rocking him. This doesn't always work either, as he can be asleep in my arms and as soon as i lay him down... BOING his eyes open and the wailing starts.
During the day he is such a happy little guy, napping well in the afternoon from 1-3 ( in addition to a quick 1- 1 /1/2 morning nap usually 8 till 9 based on him getting up at 6, 6:30) I guess my real question is how to make him learn to fall asleep if he wakes himself up. I spend alot of the night standing over his crib and trying to sneak out of the room if I think he's asleep, yet he knows the mintue I leave. Any suggestions ? Christina