Ok, so we had quite a good night..... I further reduced his NF to 120ml (started at 200ml a few days ago). When he woke at 6am he wasn't hungry til 6.45 so I am going to further reduce tonight as this tells me he doesn't really need it?
Do you think this is fair?
First nap today was a bit muddled as we had preschool drop off so he had 20mins on the way there and then was awake for 30mins while we dropped DS1 off and then fell back to sleep in the car on the way home and slept til 10.40.
Tried pushing out the A time following this good sleep. Pushed him to 2hours 15min. Did a longer wind down, walked around house, cuddle, undress, close curtains sleep bag and then song. He went down really quickly (2mins). Unfortunately he woke at 30min. I went in as soon as I heard him on the monitor and tried for 25mins to pat him back to sleep but he would nearly be asleep then grab my hand (like he was trying to stop me patting!) and then wave his arms around to wake himself up again.
Forgot to mention before now that we had weaned the paci for sleep about 1 week prior to this but with the earlier NW we gave it back as he would not settle any other way than paci or bottle. He is now having it for sleep but I always take it out once he is asleep.
Without the paci I would have NO chance to resettle any nap at all. I just don't know what to do, I am at the point of feeling like I am going out of my mind with these short naps!!!!! When he was STTN I figured, hey at least I have a break at night but these 45min are killing me. I just can not believe that people have babies that actually sleep well during the day, i just can not even fathom it!!!!
So tricky as when I extending the A time this morn I did some fun activities with him first half (reading books, playing and showing him toys, singing etc) and then kept the last 45mins really low key (quiet music, cuddles and walking round the house slowly)
Arrrrhhhhh I am lost