Hello everyone, please help!
We've been working really hard at LO's sleep issues nearly all his life and we've been doing really well. Up until about 2 months ago was sleeping in his cot after very little bedtime fuss. Some cuddling and a song in the dark and putting him down still awake. He would sleep all through the night. No complaints. Then recently he started wanting to sleep in the single bed that's in his room. OK. He would be so excited that he would put himself down often forgetting the cuddles and kisses we'd normally give him. OK so far.
Then... Mummy had some health problems which involved a very stressful month, lots of travelling to far away hospitals and eventually a stay in hospital (just 1 day). Anyway, during all this, we somehow fell into the trap of giving some extra cuddles at BT, and this quickly ended up in lying down next to him and falling asleep together. Now *OBVIOUSLY* he expects and wants this every time!!! How can I get out of this
He'll cry, very upset and dejected, each time i try to escape and end up coming back in his bed until he falls asleep. The good news (!?) is that he usually sleeps through the night (apart from a couple nights that he was teething and we were in and out of his bed like a yo-yo, all night)
I have to leave him with a babysitter in a week, who will have to put him to bed, and I really want him to go back to being independent again. This has been going on for about a month now. I've tried explaining that mummy sleeps in mummy's bed. But he still wants me there. I'm trying to have us fall asleep with his favourite stuffed animal, so if/when he wakes at night at least the stuffed sheep is still there which can soothe him... but he still wants me to cuddle before going to sleep....
Grateful of ANY ideas............ I really don't want to go backwards again...!!!
Thank you!!