Hi
Our 3wk old is pretty chilled out, follows a 3-3.5hr EASY throughout the day. When alert and happy, she tends to manage about 1hr wake time, at other times much shorter. We follow her lead.
The problem always comes between about 6-8pm. Once settled for the night, she does a 4hr EASY overnight. It's the getting her to go to sleep which is the major issue. We follow her lead with yawning etc to put her down to sleep, as we do throughout the day. Something is going wrong. We do our wind down etc, pat to calm or even to sleep in our arms on difficult, busy days. She fights and fights sleep, screams and screams. Once settled, she will stare at things around the room, fighting sleep. On a good night, she will scream s few times and fall asleep in our arms while we shh n pat. But even if we wait till she is deep asleep, she will always wake a few mins later once put in her cot and start the screaming n Patting cycle all over again. I even put a top up feed in there to try and help restart things. This process can take about two hours. It is a big problem because some nights I have all four kids on my own to put to bed. I can't stay in her dark room for two hours patting, it's not practical. Any ideas of what we can do to manage this situation or even fix it?