I'm wondering if anyone can help us as we are almost at the point of giving up and letting our baby cry it out...
Our little one is 9 months (adjusted age) and he has been very very unsettled of a night. Up until he turned 6 months, he was a great sleeper and although he did not sleep through the night he came very close (7 hour stretches). But now we are lucky if we get 3 straight hours. He suffers from severe eczema and allergies so I guess we've been letting it go thinking that he's probably very itchy and uncomfortable, however, his skin has improved but his sleep has gotten worse
. Here's our daytime routine:
6.30am Wake and 250mL bottle
7.30am Breakfast
8.00 - 8.30 am Sleep
10.30am Wake and snack
11.30-12pm Lunch then a 250mL bottle straight after
1pm Sleep
2.30 Wake (sometimes he'll only have a 40 minute nap here in which case we try to pat him back to sleep with mixed results)
Snack
4.30-5pm Dinner
6.00pm 250mL bottle
6.30-7pm Sleep
He has another 250mL bottle between 10-12pm
I know that he should probably have an evening catnap in there but I have tried and tried and it is impossible to put him down for a sleep then - he just refuses it.
After his final bottle of a night is when things go downhill. He gets up every 2-3 hours, screaming and crying and will only be consoled by patting, and head rubbing (a habit we got into when his eczema was bad and his scalp was itchy). We try to feed him and he'll refuse the bottle initially but will take it eventually (this calms him down somewhat), and we could then shush pat him back to sleep. However, we have been doing this for over a week now and things seem to be getting worse not better. I don't understand why this is happening as he definitely can sleep independently without any help from us, but he wakes up through the night obviously needing or wanting something and we can't work out what....We also have a 2 year old and I am exhausted.
Any advice would be much appreciated.