Right, I'm back! We got back from holidays 4 days ago, teeth are through, dream feed properly dropped and rolling back to front (but not front to back) mastered. I thought we were starting to get back on track but the last 2 days things have gone wonky again and I am so sick of not knowing what he needs, getting short naps all over the place and generally being all over the place. I'd really like to get some semblance of a routine going, at least one that works more than half the time but I don't know where to start! Apologies in advance, this is probably going to be long...
After we came back from holiday I figured he was pretty OT so I stuck to our old A times and we had one bad day setting back in, and then a good day of 2 longer naps when he caught up. Then it went wrong again so here's our EASY for the last 3 days....
Sunday:
WU: 7.50am (at least a 13 hour night i think. 2 night feeds - one of which was 6am after which he went straight back to bed). We woke him.
E: 9am
A: 2 hrs 25 (pd at 2hr 15 but he struggled to settle)
S: 10.15- 11.55 (1hr 40)
E: 12.30
A: 2 hrs
S: 1.55 - 3.35 (1 hr 40)
E: 4ish
A: 2hrs 10ish
S: 4.45 - 5.15 I think (in buggy)
A: 1hr 30 I think - BT at 6.30ish, asleep by 6.45
nfs @ 12.10 and 6am
Monday:WU: 7.30am
E: 8.30
A: 2 hrs 25 (pd at 2hrs 15)
S: 9.55 - 10.40 (45 minutes). Settled fine.
E: 12ish
A: 2hrs (very short wd as had friends over and they arrived shortly before nap was due)
S: 12.40 - 1.20 (40 minutes)
E: 3ish
A: 1hr 55
S: 3.20 - 4.10 (50 minutes)
A: 2hrs 40 but pd after 2hrs 20. Asleep by 6.40
nfs @ 12.30 and 5.30am
Today so far:WU: 7.40am
E: 8.30am
A: 2hrs 40. pd just after 2hrs 25ish though he did yawn at 2hrs 5. I ignored it though cos trying to stretch A times after what I assumed was UT nap yesterday morning. Protested nap loudly!
S: 10.25 - 11.40 (1 hr 15-18)
E: 12ish
A: 2 hrs 5 (pd at 1hr 55 after 1 yawn)
S: 1.45 - 2.20 (35-38 minutes)
He's woken from that last nap clearly tired and grumpy
Any ideas what's going on? And how do I sort it?
ETA: He was actually much happier after a feed following that last nap but surely he should be able to go more than 2.5 hours between feeds? I also did a top up feed before his next nap and pd at 1hr 40, and he still wouldn't settle so I offered him a 5oz bottle, which he drained. He's now upstairs chatting to himself 2 hrs 10 after his last nap.
Since we ditched the df he has been more hungry in the day but we've been offering top up bottles immediately after a feed and the last couple of days he's refused them all. I think I'll try offering a top up feed before naps tomorrow but it feels like his A times aren't right either. I can't seem to find a baseline for him which works....