Hi all, just wondering if I can get a second opinion or someone elses ideas as to what could be causing this NW.
Some background info:
DS2 is BF and now on solids too, since just before 6mo. Has been doing well, not constipated or seemingly reacting or sore tummy etc.
However we frequently have distracted BF's because whenever DS1 is around he doesnt feed well or for long before he pulls off to look around and REFUSES to go back on once he pulls off. (read - this happens all day long on a daily basis! Argh)
He is a good daytime sleeper, self settles, on his back, has a lovey but no paci.
When he wakes in the morning and after naps he is happy and coos and looks around (classic angel baby! LOL
Bedtime usually goes well, and I try to get him down by 6:30pm as this seems to be his "magic time" where his nights will be much better if I can get him down by this time. (We used to do a later BT and squeeze in a CN but his nights were worse than doing 2 naps and a slightly early BT) It's tricky though because I am juggling DS1 at the same time...
BUT he wakes at 9:30pm and CRIES and nothing will console him unless I feed him! It's been this way for a very long time, I cant even remember when it started!
We've never been able to do a DF because he always (well more often than not) wakes before 10pm.
Then after that he will sleep (on a good night) till about 2:30am and want another feed (but he doesnt bawl his little heart out like at 9:30 or perhaps I'm just quicker to stuff a booby in his mouth?
) and then will sleep on till a WU time of approx 7am.
On worse nights he will wake again at 1:30am want a feed and then again at 4am (or sometimes he will not wake until morning after the 1:30am feed)
A typical routine is;
7am WU + BF (although doesnt usually take much at first offer, sometimes I offer again later on before or after solids)
8:30am Solids
9:30am Sleep
11:30am WU + BF
12:30 Solids
2pm Sleep
4pm WU + BF
5:30 Solids
6:30 BT
9:30pm SCREAM + CRY for 30mins then feed and back to sleep - sometimes awake/up for an hour or more.
2:30am BF
repeat
I'd love to kick all NW/NF but for now I'll settle for just sorting out this evening scream-a-thon.
Thoughts?