They do all sleep together. Up until the decision to transition to 1 nap with the illness and ss going out the window they were spending some naps up to 40 mins trying to settle her. I am pretty happy with what they are doing it just doesn't seem to be working.
Despite such a yucky day we had a pretty great night. Bt 5:50pm up 5:40amith a blip at 7:50pm for about 10 minutes,
I looked back through her daycare book and the last time she had a good independent sleep there was the 29/6 which is right on the mark for when she got ill. I took her to the doctors 2 days later.
Due to being unwell we also missed a whole week of daycare so its kind of like we are starting again. I'm staying positive. We will get there again
Just need to be super careful on the days following daycare that I get on top of any sleep debt.