Help!
So things seem to have gone from bad to worse. Yesterday we tried Wake to Sleep for all of her naps. She goes down for her nap fine, usually needing the pacifier. One of us goes in after 30 minutes then at the first sniff of movement we put our hands on her arms and legs. She wakes up after a few minutes and has her eyes wide open, usually smiling. Then when she realizes she's not going anywhere she starts to cry and we put the pacifier in. Then the next full hour is spent with her fussing, crying, putting the paci in, holding arms and legs, struggling, crying, paci back in, etc...over and over until it's time for her next feed. She could barely keep awake during her last feed.
Then, out of nowhere, last night after we put her down for the night, she woke up after 45 minutes and was unable to settle. She hasn't done this since her first week of life. I couldn't get her to go back to sleep with the paci, or pu/pd or cuddling or reading. Finally I breast fed her and she promptly fell asleep. Because she normally sleeps so well at night, does she still need 3 - 1 1/2 hour naps in the day?
So this morning I took your advice and at her 10:30 nap I went in early (30 min), put my hands on her arms and legs and she soon started to stir. She woke up fully, saw me and started smiling which quickly turned to crying and struggling. The whole hour was crying alternating with me putting the paci back in (like 30 times) and struggling with the swaddling blanket. Now she's even more cranky than when I used to leave her along. Are we doing something wrong?