I just had to read this post based on the title alone. "The Case of the Soggy Pancake". Sounds like a children's book. Too funny. Anyway, my 20 mo daughter is not a big eater, but I have realized over the past few weeks she is getting really into asking for food just for the sake of asking (rarely actually eating it). She will stand at the fridge or pantry and wail unless I open it (which I almost always do), at which time she takes great pains to look for specific items and then runs off and snacks for a while. I definately need to nip this in the bud fast, she is really starting to walk all over me, but part of me is happy she is actually showing an interest in food.