Having read all of these posts i can see i have very similar problems with my 15 week DS 45 minute naps.
I feel i really need advice as to extending his nap times, as using pu/pd is really, really gruelling and doesn't tend to work. I feel really unsure why i am actually doing up/pd, as more often than not he doesn't fall back to sleep but only achieves an epic tantrum for the remainder of nap time- another 45 mins.
So i would like to know how does this technique actually encourage a baby to sleep through the next sleep cycle?
I'm really confused about this technique being used as a teaching 'tool'. I also recently read a post that said to only continue doing pu/pd for about another 20mins to try to exend sleep, but according to Tracy in her book one must keep going for the whole of the nap time if necessary...
Anyway tomorrow i am going to try the wake to sleep technique instead, after 40 mins of sleep, which seems to have been very effective for many of you other mums, to see if this is better.
Does anyone have advice about night feeding also? My main motivation for starting easy, which i have been trying my best to do for over two weeks now, is to hopefully get him sleeping better at night, but so far i haven't seen much difference.
As a newborn my lo fed around the clock every two hours, which untill easy i had continued to do until two weeks ago, as i feel as though i am going out of mind with tiredness!!
So now he is on the three hour easy, he feeds-yep- every three hours around the clock, which is better, but i really feel now at nearly 15 weeks surely i can get him to go a little longer...I just don't know how. I'm sure Tracy would be horrified with me for continuing this round the clock feeding!
I am following her advice on cluster feeding at 4, 6 and topping him off at 7 and giving him a DF at 11.00. All of which so far have made no difference. He still wakes three hours later at 2 for his next feed. (I am sure however this may,or may not, be solved if i changed to the 4 hour easy...Which is something a feel i need to rapidly work towards.)
I also feel all the 'good' work i am doing with him in the day, structuring his feeds and sleep etc, is being undone at night as i am surely reinforcing the prop i have established, by constantly feeding him back to sleep throughout his night wakings?
But although i do feel he is genuinely hungry, as he often takes a full feed from both breasts and wakes at differing times each night, i also feel his waking is totally a habit and apart from me refusing point blank to feed him i can't see a way out of this at the moment.
Anyone have any suggtions?!Sorry, i know these aren't specifically nap problems but are part of my bigger picture.
Thank you for any advice, as i'm going crazy!